25 questions to ask your girlfriend
Good questions to ask your girlfriend are ones she hasn't already answered a dozen times, such as an opinion she has completely reversed in five years. Ask a card out loud over dinner or on a walk, listen, then let her ask you back. These 25 Twosies questions are mostly open-ended and fit any couple, not just girlfriends.
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Easy ones
- The first time you met, what did you call it to yourself afterward? A date, obviously · Not a date, but close enough · Two friends, and I was wrong · No idea, and I didn't want to guess
- Long trip. Which seat is yours? Window, always · Aisle, always · Whatever's left · Driver's seat, obviously
A little deeper
- What's an opinion you've completely reversed in the last five years?
- What's the weirdest thing the two of you own together?
- What have you never told anyone because it isn't interesting enough?
- What were you thinking when you first met that neither of you ever said?
- What compliment do you wish people gave you instead of the ones you get?
- What's a subject your partner knows more about than you'd expect?
- What's the most boring thing you genuinely enjoy?
- What's something your partner does that you've started doing too?
- What could you talk about for an hour with zero prep?
- What's a plan the two of you keep talking about and never book?
- Who did you tell first about them? My closest friend, the same day · A group chat, in detail · Family, once it looked real · Nobody, for a good while
- What was the first inside joke the two of you made?
- What's a show or movie everyone loves that you can't sit through?
- What would your partner say is your most annoying habit?
- What's the stupidest thing the two of you have ever argued about?
- What's a skill you want badly enough to be embarrassed about wanting?
- Which of your own habits would you defend to anyone but know is ridiculous?
- What would the two of you be genuinely terrible at as a team?
- What's the last thing you looked up because you didn't want to ask?
- What's something your partner believes that you can't get on board with?
- What's something you were genuinely good at and then quit?
The deep end
- Where do you feel closest to your partner? The kitchen, late at night · Out on a walk together · On the couch, TV on · In bed, close together
- If one of you had to live far away for six months, what would be hardest?
How to play it as a couple
- 1. Tap Play 10 cards somewhere you can both relax, like dinner or a walk.
- 2. Read the card aloud and let her answer first. Then answer it yourself and follow up.
- 3. On the few cards with options, one of you picks privately, passes the phone, and the other guesses.
The full game is in the app
In Twosies you each play on your own phone, answers stay hidden until you have both answered, and a score keeps track of how well you know each other.
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Questions people ask
What are good questions to ask your girlfriend?
Ones with a story behind them: the weirdest thing you two own together, what she was thinking when you first met that neither of you said, something she never told anyone because it didn't seem interesting enough. Small, specific questions get longer answers than big ones.
Can I ask these questions to my boyfriend or partner?
Yes. Every card here is written partner-neutral, so it works for any couple. The page is named for the search, not for the cards. The boyfriend and couples pages hold different questions from the same app.
How do I ask my girlfriend questions without it feeling like an interview?
Answer them yourself too. Trade turns, follow up on what she says instead of jumping to the next card, and stop after a few if the conversation takes off. The player shows one card at a time, so it never looks like a checklist.