twosies

25 this or that questions for couples

This or that questions for couples are rapid two-option choices, like slow dance or silly dance, that take seconds to answer and still reveal a lot. Play on one phone: the first player taps a pick where only they can see it, then the second player tries to guess it. All 25 Twosies cards here are light.

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All 25 on one page

  1. Couch night or night out? Couch night · Night out
  2. Beach trip or city trip? Beach trip · City trip
  3. Mountains or ocean? The mountains · The ocean
  4. Road trip or flight? Road trip · Catch a flight
  5. Vacation: same place every year or somewhere new? Same place every year · Somewhere new
  6. Early bird or night owl? Early bird · Night owl
  7. Sunrise walk or late-night drive? Sunrise walk · Late-night drive
  8. Breakfast in bed or brunch out? Breakfast in bed · Brunch out
  9. Sweet or savory breakfast? Something sweet · Something savory
  10. Pizza night or taco night? Pizza night · Taco night
  11. Cook together or cook for each other? Cook together · Cook for each other
  12. Clean as you go or clean at the end? Clean as you go · Clean at the end
  13. Window open or closed at night? Window open · Window closed
  14. Movie at home or at the theater? Movie at home · At the theater
  15. Board games or video games? Board games · Video games
  16. Handwritten card or long text? Handwritten card · A long text
  17. Birthday: surprise party or quiet dinner? Surprise party · Quiet dinner
  18. Big group or just the two of you? Big group · Just the two of us
  19. Talk it out now or sleep on it? Talk it out now · Sleep on it
  20. Matching outfits: cute or cringe? Cute, let's do it · Cringe, never
  21. Dog person or cat person? Dog person · Cat person
  22. Read every review or just show up? Read every review · Just show up
  23. Slow dance or silly dance? Slow dance · Silly dance
  24. Holding hands or arm around the shoulders? Holding hands · Arm around the shoulders
  25. Call or text? A quick call · A text

How to play it as a couple

  1. 1. Tap Play 10 cards and hold the phone so only Player 1 sees it.
  2. 2. Player 1 taps a pick, then passes the phone. Player 2 guesses it.
  3. 3. Answer on instinct and keep it fast. A round of ten takes a few minutes.

The full game is in the app

In Twosies you each play on your own phone, answers stay hidden until you have both answered, and a score keeps track of how well you know each other.

464 more in the app.

Questions people ask

What is the difference between this or that and would you rather?

This or that is faster: two short options, no setup, answer on instinct. Would you rather gives you a small scenario to weigh, so it takes longer and starts more debates. Use this or that to warm up, then switch to would you rather when you feel like arguing a little.

How many this or that questions should we play?

A round of ten takes a few minutes on this page, so it fits while you wait for food or sit in the car. Play all 25 in two or three rounds; the player shuffles the deck each time, so rounds come out different.

Can we play this or that over text?

Sure: send both options and ask for a pick before you reveal yours. The game on this page is built for one phone in the same room. If you want to play apart, each on your own phone, that's what the Twosies app does.

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